Some of us are very bad at flirting. And many a time, we also fail to recognise it when someone is flirting with us.
However, there are some universal signs you can look at that will open your eyes to the fact that someone close to you in your world might be flirting with you.
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Recognising these signs is important because it will help you to recognise your potential admirers and how to take advantage of the moment to get closer to them.
Below are some of the signs to look out for:
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1. Longer eye contact than usual
According to Science, those who have prolonged eye contact with you are likely to have feelings of affection or attraction afterward.
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Hence, if you have a guy or a lady who always stare at your for a very long time, just know something is up in their head that they’re not bold enough to tell you.
2. They get deep in conversation topics
If there’s someone who always get into deep conversations with you, just know there’s a high probability that they’re interested in you.
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When that person is interested to know personal issues concerning your life, just know they’re trying to find out if they fit into your life.
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As normal friends, there will surely be discussions ranging on minor topics such as movies, food, music, just to mention a few.
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But once he/she wants to know about your religious beliefs, your likes and dislikes, your favourite food or color, among other person details, just know that person is hitting on you.
3. Playing with their clothing
This is one of the most common signs that we overlook. When someone is flirting with you, one of the non-verbal ways to show this is by toying around with a button or sleeve.
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Women do it with their hair all the time, along with batting eyelashes. When we’re interested in someone, we playfully fidget.
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4. Moving closer to you
If there’s someone who always want to get closer to you, just know that’s how they wish to be in your life.
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It’s one of the flirty body languages. Normally, this is what most shy people use to communicate their intentions to you.
You should be smart enough to realise this and help the midway.
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Another pro-tip: pay attention and see if their feet are pointed in your direction.
5. They tease you or awkwardly compliment you
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When someone is found of teasing you at every given chance and always giving you awkward compliments, just know they might be interested in you and that’s their way of flirting with you.
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If the teasing is not in a disrespectful manner, just that the person might be testing waters to check your temperament level.
More so, we all wish to have ‘cool people’ as partners. And it’s only a cool person that takes awkward compliments and teasing lightly without getting angry. So just know those could be a few ways that they’re trying to get your attention.
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Just make sure you’re not being bullied or put down.
6. They always laugh at your jokes
One way to know if someone is interested in you is when they pay attention to all that you say.
To this extent, if there’s someone that always laugh at your jokes, it means they give you listening ears.
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Who would waste time listening to someone not worth their time?
So just know it’s not ordinary or normal for someone to keep laughing at your jokes. They love it and that’s why they laugh at it. Loving your jokes means they love the person behind the jokes.
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Take note of whether they frequently respond to you with smiles, laughs, or giggles. Know that, that person is crushing or interested in you.
7. They find a way to touch you during a conversation
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Frequent touches during a conversation should send a signal to you that the person is interested.
We all know that arm graze or “accidental” bump. But when the touches become so constant, just know that there’s more to it.
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8. Lots of brief glances
It’s sometimes a co-incidence to get your eyes locked up with someone having a quick glance at you, but when it comes to this occurring over and over again, just know the person is interested in you.
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Especially if you keep catching the person off-guard.
If you’re getting lots of brief glances, it means you’re constantly catching their eye and they can’t resist looking back
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9. They exhibit nervous behavior
When a person behaves ‘abnormally’ around you, just know they admire you. When they laugh more, talk more, touch more in your presence, it’s just a way of driving their attention to you.
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10. They always like your social media pics first
If there’s someone who’s always first to react and comment on your posts on social media, just know they’re calling for your attention. That’s one way of showing that they admire and would love to get a bit closer to you.
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When the person is always found of reacting on Facebook especially with love reaction or commenting with the right emojis or always trying to pick up a convo, dropping nice comments on your picture, just know they want you to themselves.
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11. They’re in the moment
If someone gives you 100 percent of their attention, just know it’s a way of telling you they want you to themselves.
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If someone doesn’t check their phone, look at their watch, or have a wandering eye around the room, it’s a positive sign. It means they genuinely want to learn more about you.
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